hi!
Its chelsea today. :)
I know, I know...we haven't blogged in forever...
and because we haven't blogged in forever, many things have gone down in our lives.
I had a relationship that lasted a month and five days. lol. (August 4-September 9). i know...its short. :/ For the sake of his privacy i'm not going to say his name. Turns out we just didn't fit so well. I have no hard feelings toward him at all...as a matter of fact, i still love to talk to him, but I know that God didn't have it in his plan for us to date. I guess you gotta listen to God when you ask for a sign and in less than an hour on your way to your boyfriends house,you get pulled over for an incomplete stop at a stop sign :P Thanks for that one God.
Its chelsea today. :)
I know, I know...we haven't blogged in forever...
and because we haven't blogged in forever, many things have gone down in our lives.
I had a relationship that lasted a month and five days. lol. (August 4-September 9). i know...its short. :/ For the sake of his privacy i'm not going to say his name. Turns out we just didn't fit so well. I have no hard feelings toward him at all...as a matter of fact, i still love to talk to him, but I know that God didn't have it in his plan for us to date. I guess you gotta listen to God when you ask for a sign and in less than an hour on your way to your boyfriends house,you get pulled over for an incomplete stop at a stop sign :P Thanks for that one God.
and as i was ending my relationship...brian was working on beginning one. I hope he reads this and decides to post in response. :)
some things i learned from this whole experience are...
...don't compromise who you are to try and impress someone.
...it's extremely hard to have a healthy relationship with someone you barely know.
...if you can't see yourself marrying this person, it's not fair to keep leading them on.
...don't move to quickly, it only makes things harder.
...if somethings bothers you, its not okay to just laugh it off.
...stick up for your family, no matter what.
&
...STOP completely at stop signs. :P
So I guess i'm back to the single world. It welcomed me back with open arms...and a party :) thanks to all my wonderful friends who dropped everything to be with me (you know who you are). oh...and a special thanks to brian for being the shoulder that got cried on the most.
I can't wait to find the one guy that is everything i need, and so much more. I'm not about to 'settle' anytime soon.
maybe, just maybe that guy is out there right now reading this blog.
and if you are mr. right...let's hang out, yeah?
:)
that's all for now...
love ya lots..
ched.
Beloved,let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.
1 John 4:7-8


































